The Weller Way – Specialising in helping families become fully functional

Hello and welcome to The Weller Way

Specialising in helping families become fully functional

“I believe that everyone has a purpose…..treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them become what they are capable of being”

- Goethe

Why seek help from The Weller Way?

If you are experiencing difficulties within your family life, then I am pleased that you are here, a place to explore how your family can be a happier place to be, a place where you feel more confident that you are able to be the parent that your child needs

If you are feeling depleted or stuck in the relationship with your child. Is there more disconnection than connection?
If your child is displaying repeated signs and patterns of dysregulation, that is affecting the family dynamic. Or if you want to find a new way of connecting that considers the needs beneath the behaviours.
If you are struggling with a neuro-divergent diagnosis that your child has received , and the behaviours are affecting your relationship e.g ADHD, Autism, PDA, ODD, Dyslexia.
If you are struggling as a Neuro divergent parent to balance your needs as well as your child’s needs
If you feel that you need an advocate to help your voice be heard about the challenges your child is experiencing
If your child is becoming distant in your relationship
If you want help in knowing how to help your child navigate the complexities of this very complicated and challenging world
If you want to get a handle on your own challenges that are preventing you from being fully present as a parent.

Why Choose The Weller Way

As a mother of four children of her own, she has assisted countless other parents successfully navigate the demands and complexities of raising children – with care, professionalism, non-judgement and respect in all circumstances.

Generally people seek help from Coaches because they feel they are “not performing” in an area of their life, but using competitive jargon in my opinion is counter productive. “Not performing well enough” is an indictment of our society’s fast paced, perfection seeking, driven , ambitious culture and this is sadly filtering into our attitude about parenting. We strive to be the best parents that we can be, and that is natural, but not at the expense of beating ourselves up that we are not good enough because we are constantly making comparisons with others. Children are wonderfully forgiving, for most of the time, because they are hard-wired to seek a strong attachment with us, as long as we remember to apologise when we get it wrong. The Weller Way encourages and helps you to re-frame your thought processes from a stance of not good enough and feeling unable to juggle the demands of family life to feeling good enough, that you have a strong and secure connection with your child through that can withstand whatever challenges are thrown your way.

Saran is an experienced, established and highly regarded Family Relationship and Parenting Coach serving the communities of Kent and Sussex primarily but also working extensively online nationally and internationally as well.

Something has brought you to my web page...

Are you struggling to understand the needs of your Neuro divergent child?
Do you want help in understanding the impact of a Neuro divergent diagnosis within your family?
Are you feeling confused about finding a consistent approach that suits everyone’s needs?
Are you in conflict with your partner about how to parent?
Are you exhausted from trying to meet your child’s needs, that nothing is ever enough?
Are you worrying about making mistakes in raising your children?
Do you worry about whether you are doing the right things for your child?
Do you feel under pressure to be the perfect parent?
Do you feel depleted from taking care of everyone?
Has your relationship broken down with your child or your partner because of conflict?

In which case, we can explore:

Evidence and attachment based ways to be a “good enough” parent or “good enough partner” that nourishes these relationships
Ways to nurture your own self regulation so that you can be the co-regulator that your child needs
Building a bespoke parenting foundation that provides the right environment for your child to flourish
Releasing your inner critic and building an inner ally

A Few Kind Words From Our Clients

Sarah is a wonderfully warm person who has provided excellent support to us without judgement. Sarah’s empathy and kindness really helped us to understand the circle of security and implement it at home. We have seen a huge difference in both our children and in our relationship.

It is very easy to talk to Sarah about very private and personal issues because she listened and maintained a perfect balance between empathy and coaching.

I will always be very grateful for Sarah's help. She has enabled me to see things in a different way and to become much more positive about my role in the family and about the family dynamics in general.

Sarah's style is supportive, non-judgemental and caring. She totally gets the challenges facing children and parents today and made us feel relaxed from the start. We feel that we've got some great coping strategies and understand each others personality and needs so much more

It is very easy to talk to Sarah about very private and personal issues because she listened and maintained a perfect balance between empathy and coaching. I will always be very grateful for Sarah's help. She has enabled me to see things in a different way and to become much more positive about my role in the family and about the family dynamics in general.

All sessions are now online