My name is Sarah Weller and I am a qualified parenting consultant and licensed NLP practitioner based in Tunbridge Wells, Kent.
I specialise in helping all sorts of families build secure relationships for functional family life.
My Services
I provide the following services:
What brought you to my website…?
- Maybe you are experiencing difficulties within your family life?
- Maybe you are feeling exhausted from a constant juggling act between work and home life, which leaves you feeling that you are not achieving what you hoped for?
- Do you feel depleted from taking care of everyone? Or maybe you feel that no-one is taking care of you?
In which case you may be interested in my “Exploring Motherhood” package of 3 sessions.
- Maybe you are experiencing difficulties in your relationship with your partner. Are you having arguments over your discipline approach?
- Are you finding that there is little time for you as a couple now you have children?
- Maybe you are feeling that you are losing meaningful connections with your partner and your children because of time constraints or conflicting schedules?
In which case, you may be interested in exploring your relationship dynamics in more depth to reduce conflict and improve communication
If you are a new parent, are you feeling less confident and more anxious about getting things right? Do you feel that you don’t know where to start or worry that you don’t have what it takes to be a great parent?
Or maybe you are worrying about making mistakes in raising your children? Do you feel under pressure to be the perfect parent? Do you worry about whether you are doing the right things for your child?
These thoughts are often our own limiting self beliefs. But as you go through your parenting journey, you can learn how to control these thoughts, because you have invested in using evidence based tools and practices that help you become a “good enough” parent or “good enough partner” that nurtures and nourishes these relationships.
In which case, maybe you would like to explore Positive Parenting in a bespoke way that suits the personalities of your children
If you would like to explore how your family can be a happier place to be, a place where you feel more in control and confident that you are able to be the best parent you can be, then we can work together to find out what works best for you to fully function as a secure family….maybe even discover your version of ‘Hygge’!… you never know!
Here’s what some of my clients have to say about The Weller Way:
Workshop review
Sarah hosted the Positive Parenting workshop and it was brilliant! Firstly her knowledge is insane: She really has such a broad depth, understanding and approach to the work she does... And secondly, there were so many take homes which are still on repeat in my head! I took loads of notes... She helps you to make connections between behaviours, and approaches to your parenting and creates such self-empowerment! Can’t recommend it enough: My own parenting has been so enriched since learning from Sarah, it’s created so much positivity in our household!
Chloe
Positive Parenting Workshop: The pathway to Children's Wellbeing.
September 27, 2019
Big thanks from all of us
Sarah's style is supportive, non-judgemental and caring. She totally gets the challenges facing children and parents today and made us feel relaxed from the start
We feel that we've got some great coping strategies and understand each others personality and needs so much more
October 9, 2018
A perfect balance between empathy and coaching
It is very easy to talk to Sarah about very private and personal issues because she listened and maintained a perfect balance between empathy and coaching.
I will always be very grateful for Sarah's help. She has enabled me to see things in a different way and to become much more positive about my role in the family and about the family dynamics in general.
Anon
July 16, 2018
Approachable and Helpful
Sarah is very honest and open. She is approachable and helpful, with nurturing and empathetic language.
July 2018
Emma
July 4, 2018
Great Listener, kind and insightful
Sarah is consistent with what she says, kind and insightful. A great listener and good balance between listening and offering practical methods. It is a long process, but I feel far more equipped than before. I have more self-belief and a more calm, robust response to the trials of family life.
The Circle of Security has given me the chance to analyse the "why" of the behaviours within our family and try and keep the balance.
July 2018
Lucy
July 4, 2018
A Massive Thank you
"A Massive thank you to Sarah for helping me and my son through tough times - your advice has made an enormous difference, and the future is bright again!"
Beatrix October 2017
October 4, 2017
You are a brilliant Mentor
"Got to be said, you are an amazing lady, when I first came to the hostel and you researched all the lupus facts and what to do to reduce things etc, I was so touched that you made an effort with me. I wasn't used to it and it truly made me smile. You are a brilliant mentor and have helped me so much over these past months and I basically wanted to write a little note to say CHEERS."
Ex- client Chapter1.
October 4, 2017
We have seen a huge difference in our children
"Sarah is a wonderfully warm person who has provided excellent support to us without judgement. Sarah's empathy and kindness really helped us to understand the circle of security and implement it at home. We have seen a huge difference in both our children and in our relationship. We are calmer with the children and understand the feelings behind the behaviour which means we can respond more positively. Thank you for all your understanding and patience."
Joanna Bell
August 30, 2017
Well Thought Out
The course that I attended (led throughout by Sarah) was particularly well-paced and structured. Each new section seemed to follow-on very naturally from the last and went at a pace that seemed to suit everyone in the room.
June 20, 2017
Invaluable help
Sarah has given me invaluable help with coping with family and home life. I went to her feeling muddled, confused and in need of help. Through our sessions she has made me feel confident, more in control and she has taught me skills to run a happier family. She was always able to put into words the anxieties I was feeling and to give me the tools to deal with them. Her knowledge and experience is vast. I shall be forever grateful.
Sam - Parent
May 21, 2017
Client orientated
Sarah is always focused on adapting and improving the service for the client's benefit.
Deputy Manager at Chapter1.
February 20, 2017
Experience and Insights
Sarah is well respected within the staff team for the knowledge, experience and insights she brings to the table.
Staff member at Chapter1.
February 20, 2017
Excellent Parenting Advice
Sarah's course content was very sound and surprisingly easy to apply, in real life situations with my teenage daughter, from day one.
February 20, 2017
